A bit of wisdom

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I stumbled upon this inspirational story and I thought that it is too precious that I should share it. It is really easy for us to be consumed by all the superficial things and ideals that we lose sight of what matters most in life. For me, being here in Yellowknife is a personal struggle --- a battle that I am determined to win. I know that every day, in each small ways that I can, I am better than yesterday.



A mayonnaise jar and 2 beers

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 Beers.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else..
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’

The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed …

‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things—your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car..
The sand is everything else—the small stuff.

‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children.
Spend time with your parents.
Visit with grandparents.
Take your spouse out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
Take care of the golf balls first—the things that really matter.
Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’
The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.

Thanks Guy B

Source:www.bitsofwisdom.org

Note on Acceptance

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Acceptance sets you free. When you accept the truth now,
you will be released from the burden of the past,
you will then have the ability to see what matters,
and you will have the power to make the next right decision.
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I am doing this...

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Because I know you deserve a happy wife
Because my children deserve a healthy mother
Because I deserve to shine my light











Because I know the world deserves the best of me
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Lovely day in August

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A day about bubbles and ice cream and play
about the sun,
about a lovely day.
about the blue sky,
about the gentle breeze.

It's a celebration,
appreciation
of what matters most
in life
on this lovely day
in August.












Precious moments lift me up

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I am grateful for a lot of things. I truly am. But there are times that I can't help not to have questions in my mind, yearn for things that I miss or for things that I feel my family deserves; moments that I feel helpless for there is not much I can do but to accept what is here.

And in moments that I feel lost, I hold on to the times that I feel are precious.





























Be Yourself

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In a world where you can be anything...
Be Yourself!
Because you are wonderful.
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Don't be sorry I am not Miyako

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This morning, the sun was out and bright. I like that because it meant I could wear my big sunglasses and so therefore hide my face. Yes, that's how big my sunglasses are. Walking on the street, some guy was walking towards me with a big smile, so I was smiling too. He looks Japanese.

Some guy: Miyako?
Me: I'm sorry.
Some guy: Miyako?
Me: I'm sorry.
Some guy, who is about 5'11 ft tall is now motioning his head trying to look underneath my big sunglasses to see my face as if thinking, "I know you. Why are you hiding underneath this big sunglasses? Let me see your face."

Ahh the disappointment when I took off my sunglasses. Smiling, he said, "I'm sorry, I thought you were my friend." So we parted ways.
Walking back, I thought to myself, "Why do we stop at moments like this in gaining new friends? Or even just an acquaintance?"

Next time I have my sunglasses on and someone mistakes me for someone else, it will be a different story. I'm thinking it will go like this:

Some person: Miyako?
Me: I'm sorry, I'm not Miyako.
Some person: Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you were my friend.
Me: Oh don't be. I'm January. Nice to meet you.
Some person: Oh nice to meet you too. (He or she will probably say his/her true name or not and would probably think I am weird or just plain nice)

Either way, the story will end like this: We will be shaking hands and say, "Well, have a good day!" as we wave each other good bye.